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Rape experience messed up my sex life –Padita Agu

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Actress and Vlogger, Padita Agu, surprised her fans by sharing her rape experience with them.

according to the actress, she was raped by armed robbers at the age of 15.

Credit: Padita Agu Instagram

The actress took to her YouTube Channel, to share her post-rape experience after the armed robbers assaulted her.

According to her, the armed robbers attacked their house when she was 15, they raped her.

However, after the rape, no one talked her through it and she didn’t know how to deal with it.

She said, “I was raped at 15. We were attacked by armed robbers in the house and I got raped. That was my first experience and it was horrible. I had no therapy.

Nobody talked to me or talked me through it. I just lived with it and dealt with it myself. I didn’t know how to deal with.

I just carried on with life from that point. My sex life was messed up until I got married.

The actress also noted that her husband as of the time when she was going through the trauma got her a book to read, however, the book was of no help.

Padita said, before I got married, I told my would-be husband the challenge I had. He said there was no problem and he would walk me through it.”

Speaking on how she has succeeded in overcoming her dislike for sex, she said, “When we got married, my then-husband just got me a book to read and figure myself out.

She said, “It was a big issue for me. I got frustrated at some point because he was always not happy about it, too. I was depressed for most times because of this.

I didn’t know what to do. I tried practising what I read in the book I was given but it was not working.

The actress also went on to tell of how her frustration led her into talking to a woman who sold food items, sharing her problems with her.

The woman advised her and it was the advice that has helped pull her out of her misery.

“So one day, out of frustration, I reached out to a woman who sold food items. Credit: Padita Agu Instagram

She said, “So one day, out of frustration, I reached out to a woman who sold food items not too far from where I lived back then. I started telling her my frustrations with sex.

She told me she was once like that before and told me the simple things she did. She told me that whenever she was having sex, she would begin to moan and give the husband the impression that she was enjoying it.

Whatever he does to her, she would heighten it. At (in) the beginning, she was just acting it up but after a while, she realised that she was beginning to feel the things she was acting.

“What I picked from that was that words are powerful. When she started saying those words, she didn’t mean them; she was just saying those things for him to enjoy it,” she said.

Later, her words became her reality and she started enjoying sex. I learnt from her and began to put into practice what she said.

At first, it didn’t look like it was working but I kept on doing it and the story is different today,” she added.

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